A stay and play toddler session just for dads is proving popular.
The session, at Crown Lane Children’s Centre, in Lambeth, is part of the council’s policy of supporting dads.
The council found many dads were put off of sessions designed for ‘both parents’ because they tend to be dominated by mothers and mum issues.
The session dads and male carers session at Crown Lane is run by play worker Douglas Saucedo.
He said: “Some dads have tried parents’ groups, but they can be intimidating. They feel like mumzones, especially when you are the only dad there. Some women will ask: why aren’t you at work?”
Steven Otabil has been going to Crown Lane with his son Joseph, three. He said: “I look forward to coming here. There are lots of things for children to play with and activities to do. Joseph has improved his communications skills and he enjoys playing with the other children. I like it because there’s a relaxed atmosphere and good company.”
Sarah Scudamore, family learning manager at Lambeth Council, said: “Research shows that fathers matter enormously to a child’s development. By providing a broad range of support, we hope to support fathers and male carers with their own personal and social development and aspirations, including developing confidence, achieving economic well-being, staying safe, making a positive contribution to society and being healthy. The feedback we have received has been extremely positive.”
The council also runs courses and support groups for dads at 60 locations across the borough, including in schools and community venues.
Some sessions aim to provide a space for dads and their children to spend some time together, and some have a more serious point, and are designed to help men who are struggling to adapt to fatherhood.